How to Prepare Yourself For Your Pet's Death
As much as it scares you, the inevitable is coming, so what can you do to prepare?
No one is ever completely ready to lose a pet. Even if you have known for months that your pet is ill and will soon pass, when they cross that rainbow bridge, the shock still hits and the loss is heavy. There are, however, some things you can do that may make you feel as though you prepared as best you could.
Plan Ahead
This includes planning for their death and the aftercare.
- With regard to your pet's death, will you euthanize? If so, does your vet do at-home visits or will you have to go into the office? Will you need an appointment? Should you contact someone other than your usual vet? Is there a wait lists?
- With regard to aftercare, are you considering cremation? If so, private or communal? Will it be done through your vet or a private company? Do you want your pet's ashes? Do you want to preplan your pet's private cremation through the River Valley Pet Cremation Society? Read more HERE.
Planning ahead (if possible) will give you more time to spend with your pet in their last days or weeks.
Create Memories With Your Pet
Now is the time to take all the pictures and videos you've been meaning to but haven't had the time. Take paw (or foot) prints to make into ornaments or tattoos or other keepsakes you know you're going to want. Clip a bit of fur or keep a feather; there are all kinds of keepsakes for pets that you can make or purchase.
Spend A Lot of Time With Your Pet and Give In
Remember that filthy pond your dog always wanted to play in that you always said no to? Now may be the time to let him try it out. Your cat loved your grandma's quilt but it was a no-no until maybe tonight? Shower your pet with hugs and snuggles and a trip to every drive-thru in town.
Don't Forget About You
Prepare yourself for the grief that's coming. Talk to people about what's happening so they will know what to expect with regard to your emotions and mood. Remember self-care. Don't disregard yourself in this preparation. Try to sleep and eat well. You can't take care of your pet if you are under the weather.
